Your spouse or partner has agreed to kickstart a swinging lifestyle with you. While you couldn’t be more thrilled for the highly memorable encounters yet to come, before they can happen, you have to pick a couple to swing with.
This isn’t like in TV or the movies where you’re at a bar, some eye contact is made, and they silently come back to your house for a steamy night of passion. Instead, finding the right couple you two mesh with takes time, patience, and a little bit of luck. Here are our tips for narrowing down your candidates.
1. It’s a Two-Person Decision
Ultimately, the couple of your choosing must get the green light from both you and your partner. If either of you are reticent about one party, then keep looking. After all, you two will be engaging in the most intimate act there is—sex—so there should be some comfort there.
2. Think Beyond Looks
Admit it: you’ve probably fantasized about swinging with a hot and sexy couple right out of a porn flick, right? We’re not saying looks aren’t important, but personality, patience, and willingness go a long way as well.
3. Reconsider Friendly Territory
While it may be convenient to ask a married pair of neighbors or friends to swing with you, this isn’t always the best idea. Long-term, your relationship may change. If you’ve been friends with a couple for years, that can be heartbreaking.
Instead, what you should do is plenty of homework. Ask other swingers you know if there’s anyone they recommend. Use the Internet but always be smart and safe if you do.
Like you don’t rush blindly into a new relationship, the same care should be applied when choosing a couple to swing with. This is a marathon, not a sprint. Taking the time to find a great swinging couple can lead to many fun sexual escapades ahead!
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