A study by the Kinsey Institute reported that having a threesome is the #1 fantasy among Americans. This same study claims that 95% of men and 87% of women aged 18 to 87 have relished the thought of having sex with multiple partners.
To boot, there are several ways that threesomes can lead a steady partnership to greater heights and give individuals a sense of empowerment while fulfilling their sexual needs.
Threesomes Are Sexually Fulfilling
Many couples who explore the world of partner sharing find themselves being more open and loving towards each other. As with any endeavor in the swingers lifestyle, a ménage à trois success relies on laying all the cards on the table. Definitely take time to talk about any fears, hang-ups or insecurities each of you may feel before searching for a third party. Discuss limitations concerning kissing, cuddling, oral sex and penetration.
Occasionally, partners might actually bond with the third party and make them a part of their sex life routinely. After all, the more open you are, the better the experience will be while strengthening your bond. Some swingers like to simply watch their partner in action with others participate. Whatever you have in mind, don’t be afraid to speak up concerning these “wants” in the boudoir.
Remember, bringing up the topic can seem embarrassing at first as you fear your lover rejecting the idea. When both partners are agreeable, be sure to avoid putting timelines on the when and where it should happen. Rather, let the fantasy fall into place!
Meet Your Sexual Needs
Those with a higher sex drive than their significant other can indulge in a “watching only” approach when engaging in a threesomes. This allows a highly sexed individual to have their needs met while still keeping the relationship strong.
Adding Some Spice to the Bedroom
Adding some excitement to the bedroom is another good reason that many couples consider having a threesome. After all, it’s a thrilling and straightforward way to fulfill fantasies that are only possible with another participant. In regards to forging a lasting relationship, having some variety in the sheets can have a positive impact.
The More the Merrier: Threesomes Open Doors!
People don’t necessarily need to be involved in the swinging lifestyle to have a swinging good time by inviting a third party into their bed. You might even be single and find a couple to share playtime with. Either way, 3sums are worth exploring just to experiment and have a bit of fun without any commitment.
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