In the swingers lifestyle, partner swapping can be a good way to add flavor to your sex life. However, the lifestyle is not for everyone so if you’re looking for a way to “save” your relationship or already have problems in your relationship, the lifestyle is not the way to do it. This is just one contention that makes that couple to couple talk a must. Mature couples in long term relationships that practice open and honest communication see more success from the lifestyle.
Sharing your partner with another person through wife-swapping or husband-swapping can be rewarding for some, and here’s how it works and the ways to connect with other couples.
Ways to Swing: From Soft to Hard
Being in the swingers lifestyle requires a lot of couple to couple conversations. One of these talks should be about how far you want to go when playing. What are your limits etc., what to consider when exploring new sexual adventures and more. Communication, honesty and clear boundaries keep hurt feelings at bay that can destroy relationships.
Soft Swap: Starting Off Gently
If it’s your first partner swapping experience, or you’re just meeting a new couple for the first time, you may want to keep your sexual acts simple. Touching, kissing and light oral are good starts, while holding off intercourse for more experienced people in the lifestyle.
Full Swap: It’s ALL on!
Full swap means sexual intercourse is on the menu. Wife-swapping or husband-swapping are possible options depending on the preferences of the couples involved. Couples will sometime exchange partners in the same room or separate to a different room not far from their partner.
How to Connect with Other Couples in the Swingers Lifestyle
Getting to know another couple can be a bit challenging at first, especially for newbies. However, these tips can help ease the dance a bit, making the experience more comfortable and satisfying for all involved.
- Chit Chat: Take time to dine or have drinks with your potential couple to make sure you’re sexually attracted to each other and that there is chemistry.
- Set Boundaries: Discuss hard and soft limits with all involved, what’s a “yes versus a no way”. Some men don’t want to engage with each other, and some people knock anal off the list. It’s a matter of preference.
- Attend Your Local Swingers Club & Be Prepared: Whether you head to a club or a party or look online for local swingers gatherings, you’ll have plenty of choices. Again, set boundaries, have a safe word and be ready to have your mind blown.
- The Afterglow: After the sex is done, take time to make the other couple comfortable with a coffee or just a chat. You might discuss the experience or whether you’ll meet again. Or not discuss it at all.
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