A MFF threesome is the most popular fantasy for swingers lifestyle couples. Male Female Female (MFF) threesomes involve two women and one man engaging in sexual acts with the consent of all part involved. However, an understanding needs to be had between all beforehand to prevent a lack of pleasure, resentment, jealousy and anger.
A threesome should be pleasurable for everyone involved, including the primary partners and their third party. Here are a few boundaries of what to do and not to do in a threesome situation.
DO: Clearly Communicate Everyone’s Comfort Levels
If you are already involved in a relationship and interested in the swingers lifestyle, both you and your significant other must be open and honest that you are ready and comfortable to invite a third playmate into your bed. Some things to consider and discuss beforehand include:
- What type of partner do you want to consider as a prospective third and are both of you attracted to that person?
- Who would you be comfortable engaging with sexually and other physical ways?
- What ways do you want to engage with this individual? Full sex, mental stimulation, oral only, and is kissing acceptable?
- Who should approach the third person? If you’re answering an ad from a stranger, both should reply. If one party knows the potential third better than the other, they should make the approach. If both parties are friends with the third, it would make the experience a lot more enjoyable.
- What are the preferred boundaries in your male female female threesomes?
- Do you want to involve lubricants or sex toys to enhance the experience?
- What type of contraception and protection will be used? This is key in the swingers lifestyle.
- Do you want to have drinks, dinner or a get-together to get comfortable with each other before engaging in playtime?
- Where do you want to meet? Homes might be off limits for new people, so a hotel or other discreet place may be best for everyone.
Don’t: Have Any Expectations
Before your first or tenth experience with a male female female threesomes, there are a few things to avoid during your time together. Don’t go outside of the set boundaries, and don’t make your primary partner feel excluded at any time.
Be realistic about how things may go, and don’t be disappointed if things don’t happen like you envision, as there could always be a next time to make it happen.
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