I read the blog post about couples and their first times, so I thought that I would tell my story of how it all started for me. I thought I would tell it from a single guy’s perspective. I got introduced to the life style through a girl I started dating name Jasmine. She was 5 foot 4 and gorgeous. She turned me out and onto the lifestyle and I have experienced things most folks would think of as taboo. We met through a mutual friend that thought we would be perfect for each other. We both were just getting over a relationship that lasted a few years.
One day she invited me out to a party, but I had no clue that it would be a swinger’s party. That’s the night that I got turned out and broken in. She blind folded me at the door before we entered the club. She took me by the hand and led me into the party to one of the bondage rooms. Just before she took my blind fold off she told me to have an open mind. As the blind fold came off I saw couples making out and getting it on. Jasmine took me by the hand and led me over to this couple and before I knew it we were making out and one thing led to another. I must say it was fun and exciting I have never felt more alive.
Now you may ask what does that have to do with now. Well I owe it all to Jasmine for introducing me to the lifestyle, I have never felt more alive and secure in my current relationship and I feel that it is because of my experiences in the lifestyle. I am currently married and still living the swinging lifestyle with my wife, who I met on a swingers dating website. We routinely attend swinger parties and events and have connected and played with some interesting people.