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Adventures in Sex, While Wearing a Blindfold

Posted on May 22, 2013 by swingerlifestyleadmin

You can magnify your sexual arousal and tension by wearing blindfolds during sex. The fact behind this is that when one of your senses is inactive then its loss is compensated with other senses and this is commonly experienced in sex activities. Thus you can spice up your relationship by using such sex arousal tricks. Telling you about how they can affect your sexual relationship is the main motive of this article.

Foreplay with tasty foods:

Using blindfolds during sexual activities dose not mean to play sex openly. If you want to do something new from your sex routine then blindfolds play an active role in it as you can start with it out of your bedroom. You can blindfold your partner or be blindfolded by your partner and try to surprise each other’s taste buds with some delicious food items like honey, chocolate or strawberries etc but avoid pushing some obnoxious or irritating thing such as chili. At this stage of fun game of blindfolded sex you have to win the trust of your partner. You can also carry on all these activities in your bedroom if you want to extend these funny moments. At the same time, you could try at other places than the bedroom.

Cleaning each other:

You can try to clean each other with the blindfold still on. You can use your fingers and tongue to clean your partner’s ice cream daubed mouth. This will help you in feeling the touch and flavor of each other’s body before going for blindfolded sex.

Blindfold foreplay in the bedroom:

After winning the trust of your partner you can go forward to start your fun and sex games in your bedroom by caressing your blindfolded girl friend after undressing her. You can stroke her toes, hands, back, stomach, legs, breasts, genitals and neck to arouse her sexual instincts. You can also increase the pressure of your strokes at various unexpected places with some pauses to tease her in a funnier manner by moving from one to the other part of her body. You can also use your lips to trace various parts of her body. Licking and kissing on various vital parts while moving down to her vagina will arouse a unique sensation in her. This unique form of blindfolded foreplay will increase the interest of your blindfolded partner towards blindfolded sex when she does not know what you are doing with her.

Reversing the blindfold foreplay in the bedroom :

During this blindfolded foreplay in your bedroom you can also allow her to be active and undress you and have a feel of the scent and taste of your body. In this way she will be using all of her sense actively in this sex game. You can also opt for the blindfolded foreplay experience in the reverse manner by allowing your partner to tie blindfold to you. Then you will be able to experience an amazing sensation when your girlfriend will touch various parts of your body with her hands and lips. In this way you can magnify the fun of blindfolded sex many times than your routine sex as it reduces your shyness to a great extent. The unmasked partner can have more fun from his partner’s body as he is aware of the expressions and surprising feelings of his partner while touch her various body parts with his hands and lips. You can also increase the fun if both of you wear the blindfolds.

Use of household items for blindfolded sex:

Normally blindfolded sex decisions are taken spontaneously. Such type of sex experience can not be done in a preplanned manner as it may lose its surprising affect. You can use the items of your daily use like scarves, ties ad various other similar things that can adequately cover your eyes to enable you to have a unique experience in your sex life. In fact blindfolded sex is the best option for the shy sex players which can help them in exploring their inclination towards sex and their partner.

Several couples who have tried blindfolded sex had described it as an amazing experience of their life.

The Joys of BDSM

Posted on April 5, 2013 by swingerlifestyleadmin

To most people, the idea of BDSM seems like a twisted way to love. Some have a perception that it is an activity meant for people who like to take advantage of others, or people who love being taken for granted. However, this is not true. You couldn’t be further from the truth with this kind of ideology. Members who practice BDSM cannot get enough it! There are people who are in the fetish for a lifetime, while others just want to get in, hit, and run. Either way, the benefits of BDSM are numerous, explaining why some people will find it hard to quit.

What are the joys of BDSM?

If there was one satisfactory answer, then it would be “many”. Life is short. Life is boring, too, especially if you do not go the extra mile to enjoy that which you have. Most people quit very successful relationships due to boredom. Why not spice up your relationship. In fact, boring relationships are the number one reason why people tend to run away from them in the first place.

Everybody or most people are affected sexually by something else other than attraction to the genital parts of the body. It might be sexy red lingerie that does it for you or a clever dirty talk from your partner. If these two examples are what turn you on, then you are part and parcel of BDSM. Just imagine what would happen if you defied all odds and delved head-on into the society of BDSM. You would go crazy with pleasure.

People with apparent penile dysfunction have been surprised when it turned out that it was just in their mind! If you think this is not real, try some form of BDSM when you least want to have sex. Results are guaranteed. This is a mind blowing phenomenon. One that you definitely don’t want to miss out on.

It is groundless to imply that people highly interested in BDSM were mistreated as kids. This is misleading. There is no doubt that a very high percentage of BDSM relationships thrive. Most of these relationships are guaranteed of emotional health for the partners.

Jealousy is the mother of all evil. If you want to have a very short lived relationship with your partner, then try to be red eyed jealous. Though at first it seems like a very normal thing, sometimes making your partner flattered, this is a time bomb that never fails to explode. As a person who believes in, and practices BDSM, you are sure that jealousy will be eroded. For the young in love, try this, and see how effective it is!

What would you do if you were to eat chicken wings all day? No, all week, perhaps, the entire year, nonstop? There is no doubt that a sauced chicken wing, well prepared is mouth watering. However, this kind of food taken all the time, in the same way is bound to make you bored. You don’t need to be a rocket scientist to figure that out. So, BDSM comes in. There are numerous branches of BDSM that couples can explore. This, therefore, means that you will never have to deal with the evil of boredom.

BDSM encourages people to role-play. As a human being of a particular gender, several things are expected of you. For instance, as a man, you are expected to be in control, to be in power. You are not allowed to give up that power or control, even for a second. Some women want a man to take control in and out of the bedroom. This is encouraged in BDSM and with your sexual partner, you will feel free. You will feel empowered. You will be a successful explorer in the exciting world of sexual fantasy.

There is no doubt that most people have a fetish idea cross their mind when they are having sex with their partners. BDSM believers are those people who do not fear. It is for those people who are not willing to let anything stand in their way to sexual freedom and total satisfaction. BDSM is not simply a vague fetish sexual ideology; rather, it is a mind growing, satisfying experience for its believers. Enjoy to the fullest what you are entitled to as a human being! Get going, meet your Dom/Sub today!

10 Simple Facts You Did Not Know About Kissing

Posted on February 20, 2013 by swingerlifestyleadmin

Kissing reduces anxiety
Kissing relieves tension and reduces negative energy that lowers your overall stress level.
Kissing your partner in the morning will allow you to live 5 years longer.
Improves self-awareness and self-esteem
Kissing releases natural antibiotics which are secreted in you saliva.
Kissing is great for your health; it help to burn calories and can double you metabolic rate
Kissing uses 30 facial muscles and keeps facial muscles tight.
Kissing is good for the heart due to the adrenaline rush that pumps more blood around your body.
Kissing couples are less likely to suffer from stomach, bladder and blood infections.
Endorphins produced by kissing are 200 times more powerful than morphine.

G Spot Techniques

Posted on January 10, 2013 by swingerlifestyleadmin

Finding a woman’s G Spot will make a woman orgasm and fall deeply in love with you. Some women have never experienced an orgasm, so here are some tips that could change that. All that is required are fingers and your mouth.

Make her feel relax and confident; women enjoy sex when they are comfortable with their partner.
Explore her vagina with you fingers. The vagina is complex, and will take more than a rabbit jab to get her off.
Find her G Spot with your hands, while using your tongue to caress her clitoris. (According to Wikipedia, the G Spot is a bean shaped area of the vagina located 1 to 3 inches up the vagina wall between the vaginal opening and the urethra.)
Kissing her inner thighs and labia will get her ready for an orgasm
Using your pointer and middle finger, firmly slide them slowly up her vagina. (as far as your finger will go)
Stimulate her G Spot by pulling or pressing your fingers harder against it…..it will start to swell as she gets near climax and soon she will begin to cum..

It may take several attempts to get your woman to reach orgasm, but repeat the steps above if necessary and I’m sure she will climax.

New Year’s Resolution Ideas for Couples

Posted on December 31, 2012 by swingerlifestyleadmin

Spice up your relationship for 2013. Here are a few ideas you and your partner may want to consider.

Take up swinging
Join a swingers website
Visit a swingers club or a swinger party
Have a threesome
Try a soft swap or a full swap if you’re bold
Take a swinger’s cruise
Visit a lifestyle convention
Visit a lifestyle resort

Have a Happy & Safe New Year!

The Sexuality Scale

Posted on December 5, 2012 by swingerlifestyleadmin

Ever visited the Dark Room of a swingers club? The Dark Room is pitch black playroom where everything and anything goes. One can lick, suck, touch or f’ck, so one will have to really be in touch with their sexuality to visit such a room. Should straight men enter? They may choose to enter, but they do so at their own risk. If you consider yourself homophobic, you may want to stay out. Not sure what you’re into, visit the Dark Room and find out.

Bisexuals will feel more comfortable in the Dark Room. The term bisexual refers to a person who is sexually or romantically attracted to both sexes. A man may wish to date another man and maybe after that relationship ends, start to date a woman, or vice versa. Also, people get curious and in some cases experiment with their sexuality. They may enjoy the experience with a same sex partner, but is romantically attracted to someone of the opposite sex. How can you tell if you are Heterosexual, Homosexual or in-between?

Well, there is a way to measure just that with the Kinsey Scale. The Kinsey Scale is a way for one to measure their sexuality based on individual experiences. The scale starts at 0 and goes up to 6. 0 means the person is exclusively heterosexual, 1 means they are a heterosexual but only an incidental homosexual, 2 means they are an heterosexual but a little more than an incidental homosexual, 3 means they are equally open to being a heterosexual and a homosexual, 4 means they are a homosexual but a little more than an incidental heterosexual, 5 means they are homosexual, but only incidentally heterosexual and 6 means they are exclusively a homosexual. The scale is a bit outdated and there are other factors you may consider. The ratings of this scale can change over time based on your own experiences, but it’s a good start.

Where do you fall on the Kinsey Scale?

Drinks To Enjoy for Thanksgiving

Posted on November 21, 2012 by swingerlifestyleadmin

Here is a list of drink recipes to enjoy for Thanksgiving.

Black Velvet

Guinness stout
Brut champagne

Boilermaker

1 shot whiskey — whisk(e)y
1 beer

Champagne Cocktail

sugar cube
3 dashes Bitters — bitters
Brut champagne
twist of lemon(s)

SexNog

2 oz. Prepared Egg Nog
1/2 oz. Cinnamon Schnapps

Stone Fence

2 ounces rum — dark rum
hard cider

Have a Happy Thanksgiving!!

How to Throw a Swinger Halloween Party

Posted on October 15, 2012 by swingerlifestyleadmin

The holiday seasons are upon us, so start off by planning your very own Halloween Swinger Party.

Make it costume mandatory so everyone can get involved in the celebrations. (Offer prizes for best couple’s costume)
Clean up and decorate your party with an adult type Halloween theme. Skulls, bones, pumpkins, candles, dead flowers, red, black or green lights to help darken the mood, maybe create a fog with some dry ice, etc.
Plan what areas will be used for social, private, play etc.
If you have a pool or a hot tub, make sure it’s clean and ready for use.
Make sure the designated play areas have clean sheets, towels, lubes and protection. (You could also make a note on the invites for your guests to bring their own.)
Consider adding a stripper pole
Have some Halloween snacks laid out for your guest such as Halloween cookies, caramel apples, popcorn balls, jello shots, etc.
To save on cost, have your guest BYOB(bring their own booze)and/or a plate
Have ample parking space and try not to cause an inconvenience for your neighbors.
Put on some adult movies and music to start receiving your guest
As an icebreaker, play a swinger party game the entire group can participate in such as…..

Enjoy and have a Happy Halloween!!

Rules Swinging Couples / Newbie’s Should Follow

Posted on September 13, 2012 by swingerlifestyleadmin

The swinging lifestyle requires a lot of love, energy, trust and flexibility, so it’s important to lay the foundation so couples can freely enjoy what the lifestyle has to offer. Swinging should not be an option for an already failing relationship. This is something that you and your partner should be open to try together. Swingers actually set ground rules for play before engaging the lifestyle.

Swinging is for couples who are secure with themselves and their relationship but are looking for new ways to grow and enjoy each other sexually. There are a few basic questions you and your partner should discuss before getting involved in the lifestyle.

Why Am I interested in the LifeStyle?
Why is my partner interested in the LifeStyle?
What activities I am willing to engage in?
What activities am I not willing to engage in?
Am we interested in groups, couples, single female or single men only?
Do we engage in full swap or soft swap?

After answering the above questions, there are basic rules that swinging couples should know:

Know yourself – Are you doing this just to make your partner happy, or this is a lifestyle you would really like to explore.
Know your partner – Both of you are in this together and it’s important to make that clear from the beginning.
Share what you have learned – Whether it’s about the lifestyle or just about each others feeling, thoughts or motivation.
Create rules you can both be comfortable with – One partner may be more adventurous that the other, so make sure to set rules that makes you both feel comfortable.
Don’t break the rules – Stick with the rules and don’t try to change them in the heat of the moment.
Take time to talk about your experiences – Discuss with your partner, the aspect of the lifestyle that you enjoy and the parts you don’t.
Leave the option open to revise your rules – Be flexible, if you are having difficulties in your relationship weather illness or financially, be open to adjusting those rules, or if thing are going well and friendship or bonds are formed, you may wish to make changes to those rules to accommodate the situation.

Work together as a team and your relationship will grow in a healthy and happy manner.

Swingers Lifestyle Convention 2013

Posted on August 27, 2012 by swingerlifestyleadmin

Get ready for the biggest swingers convention of the lifestyle. Set to take place on August 7 – 11, 2013 in Las Vegas, Nevada, this swinger event will be the lifestyle event of the decade. Don’t miss it!!

This 5 day celebration will be held at the luxurious Palms Casino Resort. There will be a takeover of over 1,000 rooms at the resort, so be prepared for the event of a lifetime. Located near the Las Vegas Strip, Palms Casino Resort has all the amenities a lifestyle celebration needs. Themed playrooms, 5 star luxury accommodations, fine dining, clubs, bars, theaters and concert halls are just a few amenities this alternative lifestyle celebration will have in store. Lets not forget about the top notch entertainment as well as celebrity guests, after all it is Las Vegas where all the celebs party.

Vegas Exchange 2013 evolved from the world’s only lifestyle holiday and celebration for swingers known as International Swingers Day (ISD). It is a day where swinger’s clubs world wide plan parties and attends an annual convention. This year the convention was held at the beautiful resort Caliente Caribe in the Dominican Republic.

Check out what you missed!

Next Year 2013 celebration will be held here in the US and set to be the biggest lifestyle convention of the decade. Book your room now for the Vegas Exchange Swingers Convention, or, become a sponsor/exhibitor of this lifestyle event.