My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for many years. We wanted to try something new, so we decided to check out a couple fetishes. We did our research online and found out that fetishes were limitless and there was a lot out there we could explore. We became interested in the BDSM lifestyle and decided to visit a BDSM club to see what it was like. This was our first time, so we decided to watch as oppose to participating.
The BDSM lifestyle is for pain, play and control as well as control and role playing. My wife was interested in role playing and I was more for pain. We visited a club in our area and notice that there was a lot of leather and latex involved in the BDSM lifestyle. Some people really like to play dress up and is attracted to the lifestyle for that fact, while others were there to actually play the part. Everywhere you look, there were exotic costumes and I think that was the part my wife loved the best. She had found a way to express herself while really embracing the lifestyle. Since we had no leather nor latex and wanted to really look the part, we went shopping. I bought a leather collar, cuffs and pants and my wife bought a latex body suit, and she was looking amazing.
At the club, there were people in hoods, blindfolds, with whips, gags, muzzles and restraints. Sometimes you would see a couple walking by, one in restraint while the other is leading them through the crowd. They had cages, beds with sex swings and slings and some sex machines that looked fun to try out. My wife and I met a lot of great people at the party and soon found ourselves relaxed and comfortable in our surroundings. We were around open minded people, excited to watch others play and made great connection with regular people like us swinging couples. It was quite an experience.