Most swingers have different experiences when they visit a swinger party or a swinger club. Some of them find it difficult to befriend other swinger couples in an on premise swinger club where they normally engage in sexual activities. People in the lifestyle visit the club for different reasons. Some club members just want to watch others having sex while others want to be watched by others while they are having sex.
Some swingers get annoyed by the behavior of the single male members of the club and in some cases single male are not always welcomed at a party or event. New members will also sometimes annoy veterans, so we have come up with some tips to help new swingers handle such situations amicably.
If you are not comfortable with single men attending the party, then you can look for couples only events. It will not only save your time and money but also save you from the annoyance that some single guys are known for. If attending a swingers club, you should know that you may encounter and you should learn to recognize exhibitionist and viewer swingers at these events. Usually most of the couples attending these events will hesitate to preposition you for play, even if you are admired by them, you may have to make the first move if you’re interested in someone.
Some couples or single swingers attend swinger parties only for their curiosity. Such people usually pass time talking with others and sharing their experiences but do not engage in play. Keep an eye out for them so that if you’re looking to play, you won’t waste time with them. Try to enjoy yourselves at these events. You should dance and talk with others try to make new friends and acquaintance that will allow you to relax and feel more comfortable in your surroundings.
If you’ve attended the swinger party to enjoy sexual activities with other swingers, then visit the play area and occupy a room. You should wait there for early comers with open doors as couples interested in action usually visit play area frequently. You may find couples already involved in sexual activities in the play area. You can enter into the room as the couple is inviting someone to join them as an onlooker or an active partner.
Learn how to get their consent. If you’re at some swinger party and want to join a couple or group of swingers, then you should observe them for few minutes about their desire for someone else. If they frequently look around to find someone then you can easily join them by responding to their search. Soon you will get company to go with you to playroom to be laid.
Thus new swingers can attend swinger parties with normal mind set if they follow the tips given above in this write up.