Curious about the Lifestyle? Learn what swinging is all about. In the swinging lifestyle, we meet new people and share a very personal experience with them in an extremely short time. We get right to the heart of a new relationship quickly and without much of the positioning and posturing. When meeting someone new for personal or professional reasons, we slip on our “better” suit of manners and attributes, hoping they will not see the scars, bumps, and warts we have in our skin.
Swinging helps us to find new people whom we share same values about sex, personal relationships, trust, and intellectual freedom. Developing those same people into friends who are sympathetic to the “earned living scars” that we keep hidden, is crucial to building a strong relationship where we can open our soul, our thoughts, and our dreams, without fear of being ridiculed or put down. We are fortunate when that person moves into a special place in our lives for some time we are all over each other.
Swinging improves your focus when meeting anyone new
Thinking about how the person introduced to you at a meet-and-greet might function as your dentist, is different from thinking of them as lovers who might introduce you to pleasures in ways you cannot do for yourself. You will be projecting trust, desire, expectations of a good outcome, lack of physical pain, and an expectation of confidentiality. Sharing our feelings, our pleasures and our physical selves with another is the ultimate trust in another, the true basis of friendship and a lot more fun. Swinging allows couples to explore their own taboos such as threesomes, foursomes and explore their bisexuality.
Opportunities to connect with others are all around us
No, you wouldn’t necessarily want to get naked with your neighbor, nor any of the people you meet during your day to day life, but every one of those people have or has had unfulfilled desires to connect with others, even the frumpy old lady at the mini-market. Many of these people never knew what was possible with others. They grew up and remained insulated in a world of rigid rules, social criteria and parental oppression confining them to the rocky path of their ancestors. You don’t have to do that!
Finding and bonding with a compatible group of people who just might also be open to sexual sharing outside of traditional marriage is not easy, but if you do, the rewards can be life changing.