Life would not be the same without sex. It not only sustains life on the planet but it also brings fun, adventure and intimacy into our lives. It is an indispensable bonding experience between two partners but can also be challenging if it becomes monotonous. Monotony sets in when you do the same thing repeatedly. You need to make your sex life exciting as well as amazing. You can do this through BDSM toys. These toys give you the rush you need to spice up your life in the bedroom. There are thousands of BDSM toys available for different levels and experts in the BDSM lifestyle. Here are the most popular and electrifying BDSM toys.
– St. Andrew’s cross
This is an extremely popular BDSM toy because it is easy to use. It is also popular because it gives users a thrilling experience. This BDSM toy is actually a very large cross that can properly hold a submissive partner during bondage related activities. There are restraints on the cross that hold the submissive partner at the wrists, waist and ankles. St. Andrew’s cross is an ideal BDSM toy for spanking and sexual teasing among other bondage activities. You can attach it to a wall for additional support or to a central hinge. Freestanding crosses should always have a frame for additional support.
– Whips
BDSM is all about dominance and submission. A whip is the ultimate symbol of dominance. This is why whips are common in BDSM. The submissive partner also gets a rush from the whips because they cause his or her body to release pleasure hormones known as endorphins. You should be careful while whipping your partner. Do not cause any bleeding or excessive damage to your partner’s skin. The idea is to stimulate your sexual fantasies as well as those of your partner. Whipping your partner erratically will not achieve this level of stimulation. Try some word or food play as you whip your partner. Remember, whipping is perfect for BDSM because it creates a suitable environment for intense post whipping activities.
– Blindfolds
Blindfolds are simple, effective and erotic. The imagination of the blindfolded partner runs wild as his or her partner performs BDSM related activities on him or her. A blindfold is an ideal way for a shy partner to lose his or her sexual inhibitions. This shy partner will soon embrace the passions within him or her as the sensual nature of BDSM take over his or her body. Another good thing about a blindfold is that anybody can try it. You just need a blindfold. A bit of music or a simple game would also add to the mystery of your BDSM activities.
– Restraints
The most commonly used restraints in BDSM are handcuffs. People love using them but not everybody should use them. For example, people who suffer from emotional instability, absentmindedness or forgetfulness should not use them. These people would easily leave their partners restrained after they finish their BDSM activities. This can be quite dangerous especially during an emergency such as an abrupt fire in the building. You should speak to your partner about the possibility of using restraints. Only use restraints designed for BDSM activities. You should also develop a safe word that you or your partner can use when appropriate.
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