It’s common knowledge that in the swingers lifestyle that most threesomes are recommended by guys. However, there are many examples that shows ladies in the lifestyle craving sex with a variety of partners and may request a threesome. Nonetheless, if your better half is the person who is recommending a threesome, there are a few things for you to consider.
If you’re unsure on how to start such a conversation, or how to begin to process such a request, here are some surefire approaches to discuss this sexual adventure with you partner.
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- Open an honest dialog about swingers and the lifestyle in general.
- Don’t hit on friends or strangers openly. You will never pull a threesome on the off chance that she believes that it’s the only reason to lay down with someone else.
- Welcome open feedback on the situation and topic at hand. Try not to speak about the lifestyle in a negative way.
- Regularly avow your affection for her. Compliments and blessings would work wonders, just if given sparingly and fittingly.
In short, before even mentioning the idea of threesomes to her, make sure that she’s confident that threesomes won’t affect your relationship in any way.
Once you have gotten passed the ‘insecurity barrier,’ It’s time to start researching your wants and desires together. The easy ways to do this is:
- View adult movies with group action of 3 or more and gage her reaction to see if she’s turned on or off by the content.
- Discuss the idea of sharing her with another woman and see how she reacts. Talk about sharing her while in the intimate act of sex with her.
- When she warms up to the concept of a threesome, and she asks you who the other person is, say that it would be up to her to choose.
To summarize, to get your woman to say ‘yes’ to a threesome, first overcome her insecurities, and then experience and discuss the next steps together so she knows this is something special for you both to share. You will be pulling threesomes in no time at all.