Lifestyle Definitions – H

Hall Pass
An agreement between a couple where one or both of them may have sex with other people.

Hard Core or Hard Swinging (Swingers)
A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected. This can entail anything from Full Swap to DP or Double Penetration. (See also Double Penetration and Bisexual)

Oral-genital sexual activity; “Giving head” sucking motion, slang terms include, Blow Job, and Head or Giving Head.

The basic idea behind hedonistic thought or Hedonism is that pleasure is the only thing good for a person. Sometimes used to justify actions in terms of how much pleasure and how little pain a hedonist strives to maximize the pleasure (pleasure without pain)

Height/Weight Proportionate (HWP)
Someone that is not overweight or underweight.

Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex, this involves men finding an attraction to women, and women who are attracted to men.

Is a negative feeling toward the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community.

One who enjoys and has sex with only the same sex, (See also Gay)

Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure, getting turned on, the act of wanting to have sex, having the mind and body crave and wants sex.

Host (Swingers-Host)
Host, or Swingers Host, an individual that has a place for swinging events, such as their household or their event location in which the host has secured a location for others to play. (See also Can Entertain)

A happily married woman that enjoys having sex outside the marriage with the full support of her husband. The husband is generally monogamous with his wife and may or may not watch her with other men.

Refers to a man with a large penis, in the swinging community it is not uncommon for a husband to want to watch a man that is hung have sexual intercourse with his wife. In some cases women have sex and make the husbands watch, this entails cuckold, or cuckolding. (Also See Cuckold)