Communication is the key ingredient to ensuring a successful entry to the swinging lifestyle. In the event that you and your partner may be interested in becoming swinger couples, the next obvious question is how to get started. There is no typical route in that some couples take small, deliberate steps while others stumble upon it by chance. The easiest and least risky way to meet those in the “lifestyle” is to sign up on a swinger’s website or visit your local swingers clubs.
While meeting couples in the lifestyle can seem intimidating at first, the vast majority of swingers are courteous, classy and not pushy at all. Connect with other swinger couples and simply explain your situation and they will be pleased to share their experiences with you. Most are interested in making friends long before jumping into the sack. It is as easy to join a swingers website or just search the internet for the lifestyle or couples clubs in your area.
Alternatively, some couples find that there is a mutual attraction with another couple that they are already friends with. Often, this is characterized by flirtation or sexy talk during parties or between drinks. If you are feeling adventurous, suggest an intro to swinging game such as strip poker, spin the bottle or truth or dare. These games often provide an “innocent” way for couples to begin swapping on a very mild level without fear of rejection or awkwardness. Swinger couples party games are the perfect way to establish comfort while exploring swinging. After all, it is just a fun, sexy game that is being played – not full swapping. Who knows, as the game play heats up and the clothes start to come off, you might find that you already are a swinger!
When it comes to couples swapping, knowing how to communicate with your partner and the other couple is imperative. You should already be starting out with open lines of communication, and setting rules to guide you along the way as well. A couple must confront insecurities about themselves and potentially in sharing their partner with others. If the mental anguish associated with swinging makes the experience horrible or creates a high degree of jealousy, then swinging may not be for you. It is essential that individuals get over personal hang-ups and embrace a sense of self-confidence to be a part of the swinging lifestyle.
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