One of the most common misconceptions about swinging is that things will never get old or boring. However, just like with monogamous couples, swinger couples sometimes seek sexual adventure and want to try new things as well. As such, they explore new erotic sex positions.
If you’re a swinger, here are eight different sex positions you can add to your playtime.
1. Parallel Play
For many new lifestyle couples, parallel play is their first option. It is simply two couples having sex in missionary style in the same room. The couples can watch and see each other, making this a comfortable and safe option for couples looking to explore with others for the first time.
2. The Performance
The Performance is another favorite of swinging couples, particularly newcomers. One couple puts on a show, usually in a position that shows off what’s happening, such as cowgirl or doggy style. The other couple mimics what’s happening, helping to mirror their performance. This is a great way for new swingers to ease their way into watching and performing in front of others.
3. The Mirrored Spoon
The Mirrored Spoon is another position that lifestyle couples feel comfortable starting with, particularly new swingers. Two couples are in a spoon position, facing each other. This allows the couples to watch each other. This is also a great form of foreplay, as the big spoon is able to kiss, suck on or lick their partner’s neck, one of the most sensual body parts.
4. The Happy Gang
The happy gang is an easy sex position perfect for groups of three or four. Everyone gets in on the action and flexibility isn’t required. This makes this a great choice to ensure no one overexerts themselves while also ensuring everyone is pleasured and satisfied.
5. Viva La Voyeur
Viva La Voyeur does require one person to be double-penetrated, so you will need a partner down for that. SwingLifestyle Groups allows likeminded people to connect and share their fantasies. If that’s an option, this is a great choice for voyeurs to fulfill that watching fetish.
6. Ride It
Ride It is one of the most versatile sex positions on this list, as it can be used for two people all the way up to four people. This position is unique in that multiple people can stroke, kiss and rub on each other, all while having access to multiple people’s genitals. It can also be modified for those who want to watch.
7. The Wheelbarrow
The Wheelbarrow is a side-by-side version of doggy-style for multiple couples. This allows the partners to gaze into the eyes of the other participants, something that is missing during traditional doggy style with only one couple. This increases intimacy and some people get off knowing they are being watched in such a sensual manner.
8. The Oral Train
We couldn’t end this list without mentioning oral. The oral train is literally a train, or a caterpillar of people, all performing oral on each other. You can include as few or as many people as you want. It can be incredibly sexy and over-the-top, making it feel like a hedonistic buffet.
Add one or more items from our list to your next playtime session and take your lifestyle experiences to new levels. If you’re new to the lifestyle or you’re interested in swinging, start with these eight erotic sex positions that are great for couples.
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