Cuckolding is a term that does not have the most positive of roots. As such, it is ingrained in some people that cuckolding is a negative thing or men who are cuckolds are weak. However, gender roles have changed substantially and not everything is about male masculinity.
Many women are empowered through cuckolding, and in fact, many men actually enjoy participating in it as well. If you’re one of the thousands of swinger couples out there, here are a few of the positive benefits and healthy relationship aspects of cuckolding.
Fulfills Fantasies For Both Partners
One of the biggest positives of cuckolding is that for many couples, it helps to fulfill a fantasy. A wife may fantasize about having sex with someone else and a husband may fantasize about seeing his wife with someone else. It feels forbidden or taboo. Cuckolding allows this to happen in a safe, controlled environment among consenting adults or other swinging partners. Being able to fulfill fantasies helps to increase overall sexual happiness, which can make a couple feel closer.
Helps Feed Healthy Voyeurism
Voyeurism is another word that is often labeled as taboo. But let’s be honest here. Many people enjoy watching other people engage in sexual intercourse. This is why porn and peep shows have been around for centuries. If you enjoy voyeurism, you may be looking for ways to spice things up beyond just watching porn on your phone or computer. Cuckolding allows you to enjoy voyeurism in a legal way, right in front of your eyes. Swinging and cuckolding have been shown to help fulfill voyeuristic fantasies.
Creates a New Dynamic
One of the top reasons why swinger couples decide to engage in swinging activities is to keep things interesting or to spice things up. Swingers often do not want to have a boring sex life, nor do they want to settle into monogamy. They enjoy thinking and feeling new things. Traditionally, in most relationships, one partner takes charge and is the more dominant partner. However, when it comes to cuckolding, the more dominant partner usually takes a back seat and experiences watching their partner with someone else. This creates a new dynamic, which can be good for the relationship overall.
Boosts Self-Esteem and Desirability
Lastly, cuckolding can help to boost self-esteem and desirability. The partner who is actually engaging in the sexual activity often feels wanted by the person she’s engaging in intimate acts with, while also feeling desired and wanted by her partner, who is watching her. This can be a huge self-esteem booster. After all, most people just want to feel wanted and desired.
If you’re interested in trying out the swingers lifestyle, you and your partner need to set boundaries and determine what activities you want to try. While cuckolding has long had a negative connotation attached to it, more and more people are trying it out and finding out that they enjoy it. Cuckolding can enhance your relationship and create many positive benefits between you and your partner. Consider trying it out at your next swinging party or event.
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