The swingers lifestyle, also known as partner swapping or the non-monogamy community, involves consensual non-monogamous relationships between committed couples. While the level of involvement varies, many swinging couples incorporate some level of bisexual exploration.
Here’s more information about the different types of bisexual interest and activity that can exist within the lifestyle.
Soft Swapping Couples
Soft swinging couples are those who swap partners only for light play but not sexual intercourse. There may be casual bisexual contact between the bi sexual ladies, such as kissing, touching, massages, or watching girl-on-girl scenes, but no extensive sexual activity. Some soft swap couples set clear boundaries and are not comfortable with oral sex or the use of toys between the men. The bisexual play is viewed as “icing on the cake” and an extra thrill during group play. Many soft swinging couples start here as a way to test the waters before considering going further.
Full Swapping Couples
Full swap couples, or full swinger couples, are open to full sexual intercourse with other partners. Couples would swap partners in the same room or separate rooms depending on their boundaries. The women are comfortable engaging in oral sex on each other and other sex acts such as using vibrators/dildos on each other, but typically only as part of group play rather than separately. Women may also touch each other during foreplay before switching into sex. There is a stronger sexual component to the female-female play but it still primarily occurs during swing sessions with the male partners present and participating.
Bi-Curious Wives with Straight Husbands
A reasonably common dynamic is when the wife is curious about bisexual play but the husband is strictly heterosexual. These wives may experiment with other females by having private one-on-one experiences or attending “ladies’ nights” at swingers clubs. Their husbands are not involved in the bisexual play but support their wives’ exploration. These arrangements require very clear communication, honesty, trust and respect between the spouses.
Openly Bisexual
When both female and male partners are openly interested in same-sex play, this enables bi sexual couples experiences during swinging with a broader range of possibilities. An openly bi couple may meet another bi couple for group sex where both women and men interact bisexually. They may also engage with bisexual singles of any gender. The sexual energy and variety of interactions can be greater when all participants are bisexual.
Polyamorous Swinging
Polyamorous swinging relationships involve emotional attachments and relationships beyond sexual play. While still non-monogamous, poly swingers may have dedicated partners outside their marriage. Bisexual activity naturally occurs between poly partners of any gender. There is also a strong emotional connection driving the sexual relationships. For poly couples, swinging is as much about opening their hearts as their bedrooms.
The lifestyle allow couples to meet and mingle with other like-minded individuals in a safe environment. Some swingers’ clubs or groups host low-pressure meetups specifically for bisexual women and couples looking for play. For those curious but hesitant to jump into full swinging, these meetups can provide a more gradual introduction.
Modern swinging and the non-monogamy community encompasses a wide spectrum of sexual interests. While female bisexuality is quite common, the level of gay male bisexuality and the degree of involvement varies greatly from couple to couple. Open communication, trust and consensus between partners is key to ensuring ethical and satisfying experiences.
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