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Swinging Ps and Qs

Posted on February 6, 2012 by swingerlifestyleadmin

People who are curious about joining the swinging lifestyle always ask, “Do I have to have sex if I attend one of these events” and of course the answer is always NO. They are also concerned about showing off their body in public and well, being rejected. Well, I get to tell that, that open minded people in the lifestyle is not hung up on body image. They don’t what your body type is, as long as you are confident and rejection happens in any club setting, but is how you deal with that reject that makes you the bigger person.

Overcoming rejection in a swingers club is the same as if you were out at a regular night club. A single girl at a night club or a unicorn at a swinger’s event will be approached by a few different suitors for the night. There are the touchy feely types, the stalkers that won’t leave you alone for the night and then there are some that will not take no for an answer. No always mean No. There is a great article in the new edition of LifeStyle Magazine that actually sheds light on “Swing Etiquette – Dealing with Rejection in Public”. I would suggest that newbies and even some veterans familiarize themselves with such customs.

There are a few rules to keep in mind. If you are approached by someone and you’re not interested, a polite but firm “Thank you, but no thanks” should do the trick. If the person still persists then a firm “No” should give him the idea. Some women may use “Not right now” or “Maybe Later” when they don’t want to hurt the person’s feelings, and that person may take it literally and continue to bother you. If you are being harassed to the point where you feel uncomfortable and they person just doesn’t want to leave you alone, bring it to the attention of security, a staff member or the host of that event. They can then take the proper steps to make sure you feel comfortable and are able to enjoy your time at their event. Download your free copy of the swingers publication LifeStyle Magazine and read more on “Dealing with Rejection”.

Lights Camera Action

Posted on January 20, 2012 by swingerlifestyleadmin

It all started a few years back when I approached my wife about making a home movie. At first, she was not on board with the idea but eventually warmed up to it. The idea became dormant for several years until recently when my wife brought it up again. We both started discussing possible ideas for the script and which of our friends we would ask to participate. It was kind of crazy as we thought about swinging couples that were in the lifestyle. As we collaborated and worked on the script together in our spare time, we started to feel really good about the direction our movie was heading. We didn’t want a spur of the moment film, but a well thought out one that we can watch at some of our swinger events. I started to say to myself what guy do you know gets to write star and direct in his own fantasy.

One night my wife and I went out to our local swinger’s hangout to pitch the idea to some of our lifestyle friends. Some were real thrilled with the idea, while others were concerned about something like that falling into the wrong hands. The ones that decided to participate in our fantasy were invited over so we could discuss the film in detail. The very next day, they all gathered at my house for drinks and to go over the script that my wife and I had prepared. The four couples had rave reviews and loved the way it was done even down to the plot. My wife and I selected which couples were going to play what parts and sent everyone home to study their lines.

We got together on weekends to practice our lines until we felt comfortable enough to start shooting. It took the better part of four weeks to get all the scenes done. We had some great shots with girl on girls and 2 guys to 1 girls etc. We even had some shots on the swing. After countless hours on the weekend of editing and producing the video it was finally ready for its initial screening. We invited the couples over to watch while we sip mojitos. They all loved the finished product and gave it rave reviews. I must say it’s been a blast shooting directing and starring in my own movie. I would do it again in a heartbeat. To those out there that’s never tried it don’t know knock it until you have tried it.

How It All Started

Posted on January 12, 2012 by swingerlifestyleadmin

Hi my name is Joe and I’m 6 foot 1 inches, a single male that became enthusiastically involved in the swinger lifestyle. I read the blog post about couples and their first times, so I thought that I would tell my story of how it all started for me. I thought I would tell it from a single guy’s perspective. I got introduced to the life style through a girl I started dating name Jasmine. She was 5 foot 4 and gorgeous. She turned me out and onto the lifestyle and I have experienced things most folks would think of as taboo. We met through a mutual friend that thought we would be perfect for each other. We both were just getting over a relationship that lasted a few years.

One day she invited me out to a party, but I had no clue that it would be a swinger’s party. That’s the night that I got turned out and broken in. She blind folded me at the door before we entered the club. She took me by the hand and led me into the party to one of the bondage rooms. Just before she took my blind fold off she told me to have an open mind. As the blind fold came off I saw couples making out and getting it on. Jasmine took me by the hand and led me over to this couple and before I knew it we were making out and one thing led to another. I must say it was fun and exciting I have never felt more alive.

Now you may ask what does that have to do with now. Well I owe it all to Jasmine for introducing me to the lifestyle, I have never felt more alive and secure in my current relationship and I feel that it is because of my experiences in the lifestyle. I am currently married and still living the swinging lifestyle with my wife, who I met on a swingers dating website. We routinely attend swinger parties and events and have connected and played with some interesting people.

Passion Parties

Posted on January 4, 2012 by swingerlifestyleadmin

I received an invite for a passion party from a friend of mine in the lifestyle. I always receive invitations to sex toy parties like these, but have never really attended one. She promised that it would be intriguing and could help replenish my fun box that I have at home. A sex toy party I said, as I accepted and sent my RSVP. A Swingers Only Party for Couples & Singles was what the invite read. It also stated that no alcohol was being served, but you could BYOB. I guess it’s more fun if couple’s attend the party together and that way, they can use the guys for demonstrations. I had no idea what to expect, but I was going with an open mind.

I arrived at her house and she had everything on display. I could tell that she really thought this through. Everything was done tastefully and was well displayed. There were different kinds of vibrators, dildos, lubes, games, anal toys, chains, whips even men toys and a whole lot more. Some of them were new to me, and I had no idea what they were or how I go about using them, but I intended to find out. At the beginning of the party, she handed everyone a pack of candy. There were 10 candies of different flavors in the bag. She went on to explain that we will be playing a game. She will come up with 10 sexual things beginning with “I Have Never” and if you have never, done such a thing; you were to eat a candy. The person with the most candies at the end won a game and got to pick a toy of their choice from the gift box. This was a great ice breaker because while going through the 10 sexual things, everyone started laughing and talking, getting to know each other and that really got the party started. As she move through each display there were live demonstrations and even tips on how you could use them with your partner. She also took volunteers from the guests that were in the audience, so it kept everyone engaged.

I saw other ladies playing with the toys and having fun, so I figured that it was time for me to find a product that would peek my interest. I waited as she went through each one until I found the perfect one for me. I liked the edible body paint game and thought that could be a creative way to get the juices flowing. I also had my eye on the rabbit vibrator, which seem to be very popular with the ladies and included an added benefit from the regular vibrators, the clit stimulator. I strongly recommend that every woman purchase a rabbit. They even had toys for men. There were boxes full of erection enhancers, extensions, vibrators and tons of cockrings in all colors, shapes and sizes. In the end, I ended up purchasing the adult paint game, the rabbit and a cock ring for my honey. The whole experience was very interesting and I am thinking about going to a couple more before I host my own.

A Swinging Couple’s First Threesome

Posted on December 23, 2011 by swingerlifestyleadmin

My name is Lola and I am 35 years old with long red hair and thick thighs. My boyfriend’s name is Anthony and we have been playing in the lifestyle for quite some time now. Anthony and I have been together for over 7 years and we both tend to stay in great shape. I am 5’3 and weigh 125 pounds and he stands at 6’1 with a slender build.

We went out one night to a club with some friends and there were two beautiful women on the dance floor making out. I know he was getting turned on by the ladies, because as I slid my hands toward his groin area, I could feel him getting hard. We have had a few conversations about threesomes, but have never actually carried it out. We were still debating back and forth whether to have a MMF (male, male, female) or FFM (female, female, male) experience. I knew that he was aroused by seeing two women make out because this is something he has wanted me to try for some time now. However, I was more interested in experiencing another man while Anthony wanted another female.

One evening, I came home from having drinks with the girls and Anthony was home with his friend Steven. Steven is a long time college friend that lives out of town. He was in town this weekend for a fundraiser event that his company was sponsoring, so they were home drinking and catching up. Steven is 5’9 with an athletic build, not too muscular, but just right. I said Hi and joined in the conversation while sipping on a glass of wine. I am not sure if it was the wine, but I started to get real flirty with Steven. We have been in the lifestyle and have gone over our rules, so Anthony got the hint that this was something I may want to try. I asked them if they wanted to join me in the poll for a swim and they both agreed. Anthony went to the kitchen to get some more wine, while I went to my room to change into my 2 piece bikini suit.

I joined them in the pool and as Anthony handed me a glass of wine, I could feel Steven’s eyes watching me as I slip in between the two of them. I felt Anthony hand on my knee and as I looked into his eyes, I could see the smile on his face. I leaned forward and kissed him and then Steven. Steven’s hands were now rubbing my inner thighs and I could feel the juices flowing. At that time, I couldn’t believe that I was actually doing, but I soon erase the thought from my mind and embraced it. By now there was no stopping it. Both their hands were all over my body and I kept getting more and more aroused by the idea of taking these two. I undressed for them and Anthony took my hand and led me back to the house and into the room, with Steven following behind. We climbed into bed, where I was positioned in the middle of Anthony and Steve. They started to kiss my nipples and rubbing me all over. I started sucking off Anthony while Steve was busy sucking me and then the roles got reversed. I opened my legs and positioned myself for a double penetration as they slowly slid inside. We spent the rest of the night licking, sucking and f’cking. Ever since then, when Steve is in town, we have a ménage à trois. Anthony and I have since discussed a FFM ménage à trois and hopefully I will have a follow up to my story real soon.

Swingers Profile Pictures Tips & Tricks

Posted on December 14, 2011 by swingerlifestyleadmin

Here are 10 tips to keep in mind when taking pictures for your online swingers dating profile.

Emphasize your positives by focusing on your best assets.
A tidy surrounding will make for a better photo.
Try different angles, positioning your camera at a high or low angle can make for a better photograph.
Try not to slouch in your photos; simply changing your position or holding your back upright can make for a more appealing photograph.
Cluttered areas take away from your photo.
Be creative and experiment with new things. Holding a pair of sunglasses in front of your lens will create a more interesting look.
Lie on your back or position your lamp differently to avoid embarrassing shots.
Indoor and outdoor lighting is a factor to consider when taking your photos. Outdoor lighting and indoor lighting from a couple of lamps can produce better quality photos.
Leave some things to the imagination; a seductive photo invites the person on the other end into your fantasy.
You don’t have to lay it all out to be sexy and appealing to the person viewing the photo. The anticipation is what makes the photo exciting, so a subtle glimpse is far more erotic than a gynecological exam.

ISD 2012 Swinger Wives Calendar Contest

Posted on December 9, 2011 by swingerlifestyleadmin

International Swingers Day (ISD) has teamed up with Topless Travel and LifeStyle Magazine to bring you the first annual Lifestyle Babe Calendar Contest. The contest began on November 17, 2011 and will end at midnight on March 28, 2012. They are looking for hot swinger wives and unicorns to pose for their 2013 Lifestyle Babes’ Calendar, so ladies if you have ever dreamed about posing for Playboy or a Sexy Pinup, here’s your chance.

The grand prize winner will receive $1,000 in cash and a complimentary resort stay for two at the next International Swingers’ Day Convention in 2013. The cover of the Life Style Babes’ Calendar 2013 and also appear on the calendar page International Swingers’ Day.

To enter:

Contestants must be able to attend ISD in the Dominican Republic from August 8 – 12 2012.
Email a clear full body photo. (Along with the full body shot, please include a close up face shot for verification purposes.) Nudity is acceptable.
A brief bio (see requirements)
A letter stating why you should be considered a contestant.

Submit information to mari@internationalswingersday.com. Include your name, phone number and email address in your correspondence.

Twelve (12) contestants will be selected as finalists. These 12 contestants will be notified by April 6, 2012. They will then participate in a professional photo shoot on the resort grounds during the convention. One winner will then be selected to grace the cover of the Life Style Babes’ Calendar 2013.

All finalists will need to sign a model release document that gives LifeStyle Magazine and TopLess Travel permission to publish their photos.

Drinks With St. Nick

Posted on December 1, 2011 by swingerlifestyleadmin

So Thanksgiving is over and the Christmas holiday season has begun. Most of you will be attending swinger parties, resorts or even conventions, while some will stay home to celebrate with their significant other and guests. During this beautiful holiday season, there are a few lifestyle libations you might want to try. We have compiled a list of the best swinger drinks you can enjoy at home or at that swinger event. Here are a few fan faves.

Swingerita

1 ½ oz. Tequila
1 ½ oz. Blue Curacao
1 oz. Sweet Lime Juice

This drink can be served on the rocks or frozen, in a cocktail glass or a margarita glass. Take a trip to Mexico with the Swingerita, it’s the original Mexican drink.

Towel Shark

½ oz. Southern Comfort
½ oz. White Chocolate Liqueur

This drink should be served as a shot! Towel Sharks are usually sported by the predators of the clubs, lurking around in the dark wearing white towels; best believe he is on the prowl.

Lifestyle Lemonade

1 oz. Rum
1 oz. Vodka
2 oz. Sweet & Sour Mix
7-up to taste

This drink is served on the rocks in a Collins glass. Feeling hot and thirsty, lifestyle lemonade is the anytime drink, day or night, it will make your lips pucker.

Bi – 69

1oz. Kahlua
1 oz. Irish Cream
½ oz. Grand Marnier

This drink is served over ice in an old fashioned glass. If you like Bailey’s you will enjoy the Bi-69. Creamy, tasty, soft and wet, close your eyes and imagine the most seductive time in your life. Bi-69 is all the fantasies you will need in a glass.

Happy Holidays!!

10 Sex Quotes – Swinger Humor

Posted on November 25, 2011 by swingerlifestyleadmin

“You know “that look” women get when they want sex? Me neither.” - Steve Martin
“Remember, if you smoke after sex you’re doing it too fast.” - Woody Allen
“Bisexuality immediately doubles your chances for a date on Saturday night.” - Rodney Dangerfield
“Sex is one of the nine reasons for reincarnation. The other eight are unimportant.” - George Burns
“Love is the answer, but while you are waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty good questions.” – Woody Allen
“According to a new survey, women say they feel more comfortable undressing in front of men than they do undressing in front of other women. They say that women are too judgmental, where, of course, men are just grateful. “- Robert De Niro
“Don’t knock masturbation – It’s sex with someone I love.” – Woody Allen
“Sex is emotion in motion.” – Mae West
“My wife wants sex in the back of the car and she wants me to drive.” – Rodney Dangerfield
“Some things are better than sex, and some are worse, but there’s nothing exactly like it.” W. C. Fields

11 Sex Tips for Swinging Couples

Posted on November 17, 2011 by swingerlifestyleadmin

Once in a while some women like it rough. Take her with a little force, pull her close, rip off her clothes and do it cave man style.
Some say morning sex is the best sex. Ladies, if you wake up before your man, give him an oral surprise. You might be late for work, but you will have that pep in your step you get from having great sex.
Alternate using your hand and mouth for oral sex. Depending on his size, stimulating the shaft as well as the head can make all the difference and you won’t get as tired.
Men, if you want your ladies to swallow, read up on Tips To Make Your Semen Taste Sweet. Studies have shown that pineapples tend to make your semen taste better.
Ladies, surprise your man by removing all your pubic hair completely. Revealing a groomed undercarriage will leave him hypnotized.
Ladies, having sex is a great way to burn calories and it does wonders for the body and mind. Check Out How To Burn Calories with Sex Positions. Missionary positions burns 21 calories, but an orgy let you burn 75 calories.
Ladies, whether you are married or not, never get too comfortable with your man. Continue to dress sexy for bed. Whether you wearing sexy lingerie or even a tank top and sexy panties, always be ready for your man.

Men, move your entire body up about two inches. Your pubic bone will rest on top of hers so that the base of your penis presses on her clit. This position provides continuous stimulation of her clitoris during intercourse.
Ladies, don’t be afraid to touch yourself.
Have Vacation Sex. Haven’t been on a vacation in a while? Check out International Swingers Day, a swinger’s holiday and lifestyle convention, happening at the beautiful Resort Caliente Caribe in the Dominican Republic.
Ladies give your man a full body massage.