Swinging and Jealousy

Swinger Stories - Swinging and JealousyTerry and Pete, a married couple and in the lifestyle for 4 years, came into contact one night with the green-eyed monster (jealousy).  Out at an intimate party one night with a few other lifestyle couples, Terry told Pete that he seemed to be having more fun with Jane than with her all evening and that made her feel uncomfortable.  She told him she actually felt jealous.

Pete who is a great listener had asked what it was in particular that made her feel this way.  Terry told him that although she didn’t mind him dancing with Jane, she wanted him to save some dances for her.  Basically, this was her way of telling him that at some point during the evening, she wanted them to bond.  John realizing that Terry is the most important person in his life and what she thinks really does matter made a pact to make time, even at a swing club, for each other.

Whether it’s a dance, or hanging out right after playing with another couple, no one is more important than the person you came to the club with.  After all, this is the spouse that has elected to go to a swing clubs with you and make your life more exciting along the way.

Swinging Couple 1st Visit to a BDSM Club

Swinger Stories - Swinging Couple 1st Visit to a BDSM Club My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for many years.  We wanted to try something new, so we decided to check out a couple fetishes.   We did our research online and found out that fetishes were limitless and there was a lot out there we could explore.  We became interested in the BDSM lifestyle and decided to visit a BDSM club to see what it was like.  This was our first time, so we decided to watch as oppose to participating.

The BDSM lifestyle is for pain, play and control as well as control and role playing.  My wife was interested in role playing and I was more for pain.  We visited a club in our area and notice that there was a lot of leather and latex involved in the BDSM lifestyle.  Some people really like to play dress up and is attracted to the lifestyle for that fact, while others were there to actually play the part.  Everywhere you look, there were exotic costumes and I think that was the part my wife loved the best.  She had found a way to express herself while really embracing the lifestyle.  Since we had no leather nor latex and wanted to really look the part, we went shopping.  I bought a leather collar, cuffs and pants and my wife bought a latex body suit, and she was looking amazing.

At the club, there were people in hoods, blindfolds, with whips, gags, muzzles and restraints.  Sometimes you would see a couple walking by, one in restraint while the other is leading them through the crowd.   They had cages, beds with sex swings and slings and some sex machines that looked fun to try out.  My wife and I met a lot of great people at the party and soon found ourselves relaxed and comfortable in our surroundings.  We were around open minded people, excited to watch others play and made great connection with regular people like us swinging couples.  It was quite an experience.