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Closet Swingers or Closet Freaks

Posted on February 14, 2012 by swingerlifestyleadmin

My wife and I were looking for a way to characterize our swinger obsession and finally rested on closet swingers. In order to understand what this means as it relates to us, I will start by telling you how we met and how we came to where we are today. One night while hanging out with the Fellas at a club, I saw this beautiful girl, now my wife. She was 5 feet 7 inches and wearing a little black dress that showed off her body. I was mesmerized from that moment I laid eyes on her. As I mustered up the courage to go over and talk to her, my heart began racing. This girl was perfect for me in every way.

I approached her and introduced myself as Dwayne and reached out my hand to shake hers, she responded “I’m Trina and please to meet you”. Before we knew it, we were talking and dancing and drinking the night away. Needless to say, we exchanged numbers and before we knew it, we were dating and talking about settling down. It was as if it was love at first sight everything seemed to click right off the bat.

One day while at worked, I reached for my phone and sent her a quick text letting her know that I was thinking about her and she immediately texted back saying ditto along with a sexy half naked picture of herself. Aroused by her pic, I quickly replied that I couldn’t wait to see later and was hoping we could explore her wild side. She replied back saying she that she couldn’t wait and that she was looking forward to it. That night we made love for the very first time. For once in my life everything clicked and I was in the right place and the right relationship.

One day while at work, I gave her a call and asked if she would like to try something new and go to a strip club with me. She paused and for that split second I thought to myself, what have I done, thinking that I just got myself in a whole lot of trouble. I was rather relieved when she said yes, she would love to go. We made plans for the weekend and visited one of our local strip joints. Needless to say we had a blast. This was the first of many, just doing something outside the norm. We sipped on our martini’s enjoyed lap dances together. That night, we got so turned on, we f”cked like there was no tomorrow. It was full of emotion and raw animal instincts. We started to explore more with our sexuality and worked our way up to visit our local swinger clubs mostly just to watch. The first time we didn’t know what to expect. It was interesting, exotic, educational and inspiring all at the same time. We visited the various theme rooms and watch on as guys and girls were having fun and letting it all hang out. That night, we went home and did some role playing of our own. We tried moves and techniques we saw and vowed to continue living the lifestyle. We always try and go whenever we can mostly to watch, maybe spice things up and to keep things fresh. Needless to say that we are now happily married with two kids both conceived after having great sex from visiting our local swinger hangout. We have not as yet come full circle with the lifestyle but we are gradually working on getting there. I will keep you updated when we do decide to break out of the closet.

Lights Camera Action

Posted on January 20, 2012 by swingerlifestyleadmin

It all started a few years back when I approached my wife about making a home movie. At first, she was not on board with the idea but eventually warmed up to it. The idea became dormant for several years until recently when my wife brought it up again. We both started discussing possible ideas for the script and which of our friends we would ask to participate. It was kind of crazy as we thought about swinging couples that were in the lifestyle. As we collaborated and worked on the script together in our spare time, we started to feel really good about the direction our movie was heading. We didn’t want a spur of the moment film, but a well thought out one that we can watch at some of our swinger events. I started to say to myself what guy do you know gets to write star and direct in his own fantasy.

One night my wife and I went out to our local swinger’s hangout to pitch the idea to some of our lifestyle friends. Some were real thrilled with the idea, while others were concerned about something like that falling into the wrong hands. The ones that decided to participate in our fantasy were invited over so we could discuss the film in detail. The very next day, they all gathered at my house for drinks and to go over the script that my wife and I had prepared. The four couples had rave reviews and loved the way it was done even down to the plot. My wife and I selected which couples were going to play what parts and sent everyone home to study their lines.

We got together on weekends to practice our lines until we felt comfortable enough to start shooting. It took the better part of four weeks to get all the scenes done. We had some great shots with girl on girls and 2 guys to 1 girls etc. We even had some shots on the swing. After countless hours on the weekend of editing and producing the video it was finally ready for its initial screening. We invited the couples over to watch while we sip mojitos. They all loved the finished product and gave it rave reviews. I must say it’s been a blast shooting directing and starring in my own movie. I would do it again in a heartbeat. To those out there that’s never tried it don’t know knock it until you have tried it.

How It All Started

Posted on January 12, 2012 by swingerlifestyleadmin

Hi my name is Joe and I’m 6 foot 1 inches, a single male that became enthusiastically involved in the swinger lifestyle. I read the blog post about couples and their first times, so I thought that I would tell my story of how it all started for me. I thought I would tell it from a single guy’s perspective. I got introduced to the life style through a girl I started dating name Jasmine. She was 5 foot 4 and gorgeous. She turned me out and onto the lifestyle and I have experienced things most folks would think of as taboo. We met through a mutual friend that thought we would be perfect for each other. We both were just getting over a relationship that lasted a few years.

One day she invited me out to a party, but I had no clue that it would be a swinger’s party. That’s the night that I got turned out and broken in. She blind folded me at the door before we entered the club. She took me by the hand and led me into the party to one of the bondage rooms. Just before she took my blind fold off she told me to have an open mind. As the blind fold came off I saw couples making out and getting it on. Jasmine took me by the hand and led me over to this couple and before I knew it we were making out and one thing led to another. I must say it was fun and exciting I have never felt more alive.

Now you may ask what does that have to do with now. Well I owe it all to Jasmine for introducing me to the lifestyle, I have never felt more alive and secure in my current relationship and I feel that it is because of my experiences in the lifestyle. I am currently married and still living the swinging lifestyle with my wife, who I met on a swingers dating website. We routinely attend swinger parties and events and have connected and played with some interesting people.

Passion Parties

Posted on January 4, 2012 by swingerlifestyleadmin

I received an invite for a passion party from a friend of mine in the lifestyle. I always receive invitations to sex toy parties like these, but have never really attended one. She promised that it would be intriguing and could help replenish my fun box that I have at home. A sex toy party I said, as I accepted and sent my RSVP. A Swingers Only Party for Couples & Singles was what the invite read. It also stated that no alcohol was being served, but you could BYOB. I guess it’s more fun if couple’s attend the party together and that way, they can use the guys for demonstrations. I had no idea what to expect, but I was going with an open mind.

I arrived at her house and she had everything on display. I could tell that she really thought this through. Everything was done tastefully and was well displayed. There were different kinds of vibrators, dildos, lubes, games, anal toys, chains, whips even men toys and a whole lot more. Some of them were new to me, and I had no idea what they were or how I go about using them, but I intended to find out. At the beginning of the party, she handed everyone a pack of candy. There were 10 candies of different flavors in the bag. She went on to explain that we will be playing a game. She will come up with 10 sexual things beginning with “I Have Never” and if you have never, done such a thing; you were to eat a candy. The person with the most candies at the end won a game and got to pick a toy of their choice from the gift box. This was a great ice breaker because while going through the 10 sexual things, everyone started laughing and talking, getting to know each other and that really got the party started. As she move through each display there were live demonstrations and even tips on how you could use them with your partner. She also took volunteers from the guests that were in the audience, so it kept everyone engaged.

I saw other ladies playing with the toys and having fun, so I figured that it was time for me to find a product that would peek my interest. I waited as she went through each one until I found the perfect one for me. I liked the edible body paint game and thought that could be a creative way to get the juices flowing. I also had my eye on the rabbit vibrator, which seem to be very popular with the ladies and included an added benefit from the regular vibrators, the clit stimulator. I strongly recommend that every woman purchase a rabbit. They even had toys for men. There were boxes full of erection enhancers, extensions, vibrators and tons of cockrings in all colors, shapes and sizes. In the end, I ended up purchasing the adult paint game, the rabbit and a cock ring for my honey. The whole experience was very interesting and I am thinking about going to a couple more before I host my own.

A Swinging Couple’s First Threesome

Posted on December 23, 2011 by swingerlifestyleadmin

My name is Lola and I am 35 years old with long red hair and thick thighs. My boyfriend’s name is Anthony and we have been playing in the lifestyle for quite some time now. Anthony and I have been together for over 7 years and we both tend to stay in great shape. I am 5’3 and weigh 125 pounds and he stands at 6’1 with a slender build.

We went out one night to a club with some friends and there were two beautiful women on the dance floor making out. I know he was getting turned on by the ladies, because as I slid my hands toward his groin area, I could feel him getting hard. We have had a few conversations about threesomes, but have never actually carried it out. We were still debating back and forth whether to have a MMF (male, male, female) or FFM (female, female, male) experience. I knew that he was aroused by seeing two women make out because this is something he has wanted me to try for some time now. However, I was more interested in experiencing another man while Anthony wanted another female.

One evening, I came home from having drinks with the girls and Anthony was home with his friend Steven. Steven is a long time college friend that lives out of town. He was in town this weekend for a fundraiser event that his company was sponsoring, so they were home drinking and catching up. Steven is 5’9 with an athletic build, not too muscular, but just right. I said Hi and joined in the conversation while sipping on a glass of wine. I am not sure if it was the wine, but I started to get real flirty with Steven. We have been in the lifestyle and have gone over our rules, so Anthony got the hint that this was something I may want to try. I asked them if they wanted to join me in the poll for a swim and they both agreed. Anthony went to the kitchen to get some more wine, while I went to my room to change into my 2 piece bikini suit.

I joined them in the pool and as Anthony handed me a glass of wine, I could feel Steven’s eyes watching me as I slip in between the two of them. I felt Anthony hand on my knee and as I looked into his eyes, I could see the smile on his face. I leaned forward and kissed him and then Steven. Steven’s hands were now rubbing my inner thighs and I could feel the juices flowing. At that time, I couldn’t believe that I was actually doing, but I soon erase the thought from my mind and embraced it. By now there was no stopping it. Both their hands were all over my body and I kept getting more and more aroused by the idea of taking these two. I undressed for them and Anthony took my hand and led me back to the house and into the room, with Steven following behind. We climbed into bed, where I was positioned in the middle of Anthony and Steve. They started to kiss my nipples and rubbing me all over. I started sucking off Anthony while Steve was busy sucking me and then the roles got reversed. I opened my legs and positioned myself for a double penetration as they slowly slid inside. We spent the rest of the night licking, sucking and f’cking. Ever since then, when Steve is in town, we have a ménage à trois. Anthony and I have since discussed a FFM ménage à trois and hopefully I will have a follow up to my story real soon.

A Swinger Wife’s First Time

Posted on November 3, 2011 by swingerlifestyleadmin

My husband Carrie and I have been married now for over 25 years. We are an attractive couple both in our forties and have done very well for ourselves. We have two beautiful children; both have now gone off to college, so we now have lots of free time to ourselves. I would classify our sex life as above average. When the kids went away to college, we found that we had a lot more free time on our hands and with no kids around the house, our sex life began to pick up. We started getting more adventurous sexually; we experimented with sex toys and even did roles playing just to add a little spice to our marriage. We were more relaxed and had a lot of time to enjoy each other’s company, that’s when my husband started to open up about his sexual fantasies.

My husband’s biggest fantasy was watching me have sex with other men. At first I was shocked, but soon learned that it was a big turn on for him and soon I began to think about having sex with another man while my husband watched. He would talk about these fantasies while we had sex and I noticed that when I played along and answered back he got more aroused by my response. I wanted to please my husband sexually, so I decided we could give it a try. We knew this was something we wanted to explore more, but had no idea where or how to start.

We decided to do a little research before jumping in. We read up online about the swinging lifestyle and to our shock and amazement there was a whole community out there to explore. We started to watch a few DVD’s and I decided to read up more about the lifestyle through this online swinger’s magazine. My husband checked out a couple websites and created a profile for us on Swinglifestyle.com. We went through a couple profiles until we came upon a nice attractive couple by the name of Jeff and Karen, who were around the same age as we were and their story seemed to mimic ours. My husband decided to reach out to them through email, where we had a few email exchanges back and forth before deciding to meet. We decided to do a web cam meeting so we could get better acquainted with the couple. Our webcam session was a success. We talked a little about where we were as couples and experiences we had in the past. They have been in the lifestyle for a while and knew we were newbies. We played a little game that left my husband and me so aroused and interested for more, we decided to meet up in person.

We first had an intimate meeting at an exquisite restaurant where we fine food, fine wine and a erotic conversations. They talked to us about the lifestyle and some of their experiences, the good the bad and the ugly. They even invited us to swingers resort in the Caribbean and we told them that we would think about it. Our second meeting was at a swingers club. This was the first time we have been to one so we just took in the ambiance of it all. We had a few drinks and then hit the dance floor. We were having such a great time, when Karen came over to me and said that they were real comfortable with our friendship and us as a couple and wanted to take it to the next level. She then asked if we wanted to join them in the play area. I knew what that meant, so took my husband’s hand following Jeff and Karen we went with them to the play areas. We entered the play area, where we all got naked and started to lick, suck and f’ck and thus the beginning of our swinging lifestyle.

Swinging and Jealousy

Posted on August 8, 2011 by swingerlifestyleadmin

Terry and Pete, a married couple and in the lifestyle for 4 years, came into contact one night with the green-eyed monster (jealousy). Out at an intimate party one night with a few other lifestyle couples, Terry told Pete that he seemed to be having more fun with Jane than with her all evening and that made her feel uncomfortable. She told him she actually felt jealous.

Pete who is a great listener had asked what it was in particular that made her feel this way. Terry told him that although she didn’t mind him dancing with Jane, she wanted him to save some dances for her. Basically, this was her way of telling him that at some point during the evening, she wanted them to bond. John realizing that Terry is the most important person in his life and what she thinks really does matter made a pact to make time, even at a swing club, for each other.

Whether it’s a dance, or hanging out right after playing with another couple, no one is more important than the person you came to the club with. After all, this is the spouse that has elected to go to a swing clubs with you and make your life more exciting along the way.

Swinging Couple 1st Visit to a BDSM Club

Posted on August 4, 2011 by swingerlifestyleadmin

My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for many years. We wanted to try something new, so we decided to check out a couple fetishes. We did our research online and found out that fetishes were limitless and there was a lot out there we could explore. We became interested in the BDSM lifestyle and decided to visit a BDSM club to see what it was like. This was our first time, so we decided to watch as oppose to participating.

The BDSM lifestyle is for pain, play and control as well as control and role playing. My wife was interested in role playing and I was more for pain. We visited a club in our area and notice that there was a lot of leather and latex involved in the BDSM lifestyle. Some people really like to play dress up and is attracted to the lifestyle for that fact, while others were there to actually play the part. Everywhere you look, there were exotic costumes and I think that was the part my wife loved the best. She had found a way to express herself while really embracing the lifestyle. Since we had no leather nor latex and wanted to really look the part, we went shopping. I bought a leather collar, cuffs and pants and my wife bought a latex body suit, and she was looking amazing.

At the club, there were people in hoods, blindfolds, with whips, gags, muzzles and restraints. Sometimes you would see a couple walking by, one in restraint while the other is leading them through the crowd. They had cages, beds with sex swings and slings and some sex machines that looked fun to try out. My wife and I met a lot of great people at the party and soon found ourselves relaxed and comfortable in our surroundings. We were around open minded people, excited to watch others play and made great connection with regular people like us swinging couples. It was quite an experience.