Kama Sutra
Or: Kamasutra, the Indian manual of erotic love believed to have been written by the Hindu sage Vatsyayana sometime between the 3rd and 5th centuries AD, containing descriptions and illustrations of sexual-positions, recipes for aphrodisiacs, descriptions of ways of kissing and embracing a lover, and so on.
Leather (Fetish)
Leather, also a fetish of sexual stimulation through the wearing or touching of leather or leather garments, this can entail whips and leather lingerie. (See also Fetish)
Lesbian
A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women. Although Lesbians only date women, in rare occasions a Lesbian couple may invite a single man for a threesome. Some couples have a single male over to impregnate one or both members of the Lesbian couple. In this case the man would be known as the Bull or Swinger Bull.
LGBT
The lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community.
Lifestyle Swingers
A Lifestyle Swinger or Lifestyle Swingers couple is one who attends lifestyle functions, such as swinger parties, swinger clubs and one who is involved in soft swap and full swap. (See also Soft Swap and Full Swap)
Local Swingers
Local Swingers means a swinger or swinger couple that is local to your area such as local swingers in your city as well as your neighbors. Local Swingers also attend local Swinger clubs which can be found here.
Long Term Relationship (LTR)
Used mostly in personal ads and online ads.
Male (M)
Used mostly in personal ads and online ads.
Marital Aids
Dildos, vibrators, and other devices which are used in tandem or in place of the penis in a Heterosexual or Homosexual even Lesbian relationship. (See also Dildo)
Married Black Couple (MBC)
A black couple who is participating together in the lifestyle.
Married Bi Couple (MBiC)
A couple participating in the lifestyle where at least one of them is bisexual.
Married White Couple (MWC)
A white couple who is participating together in the lifestyle.
Masochism
Masochism is the sexual gratification through receiving pain and also humiliation from others. Pain can range from whipping, caning, welts, drawn blood and bruising. Humiliation can range form degrading acts to verbal abuse. (See also BDSM and Caning)
Master/Slave (BDSM)
Participants that are involved in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship. (See also B&D, Bondage and Discipline)
Meet For Pleasure (Swingers)
Willing to meet for swinging or swinger sex there is no social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity.
Menage A’ Trois (Swingers)
Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. This can be a MMF or a FMM, if a FMM is occurring a DP or Double Penetration is usually expected and or wanted. (See also Double Penetration(DP) and Threesomes)
Moresome
More than three people in a swinging interaction. (See also Group Sex)
Mother I’d Like (to) Fuck (MILF)
A sexually attractive female with children. Usually this is in reference to an older woman (age 30 – 50).
Newbies or Newcomers
New people in swinging; First-time swingers either a couple, single woman or man new to the lifestyle.
Non Smoker (Swingers)
Non Smoker, this is a swinger or swinger couple that does not smoke. With online swinging profiles one may say Non smoker or NS.
No Strings Attached (NSA)
This means someone that wants to get together to swing without any sort of commitment or other relationship (other than sexual).
Nymphomaniac or Hypersexuality
Nymphomaniac and the concept of hypersexuality replaces older thoughts of nymphomania (or furor uterinus) and satyriasis. Nymphomania was believed to be a female psychological disorder with an overactive libido and obsessed with sex. In males the concept is known as satyriasis or satyr.
Off Premise
No swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet and make your own arrangements. Great for newcomers or Newbies, (See also Newbies)
Online Swingers
Online Swingers is a swinger or swinging couple that is looking for other online swingers, or Swingers on the internet. Now people can access the internet to find swinger parties and swinger couples and clubs. In the past couples had to purchase a swinger magazine to find other couples and clubs.
On Premise
Swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet and make arrangements to swing at the club. Great for Local Swingers and Lifestyle Swingers. (See also Local Swingers and Lifestyle Swingers)
Open Swinging or Open Door (Swingers)
A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room. A minimum of privacy.
Oral Genital
Oral Genital (See also French Culture, Cunnilingus, Fellatio and Head)
Orgasm
Female/Male Orgasm, also sexual climax or peak is the plateau phase of sexual response by an intense sensation of erotic pleasure.
Orgy
Orgy, or Swinger Orgy, Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; Complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part. (See also Group Sex and Moresome)
P/P
This is referred to as photo and phone number used in personal ads and or online swingers. (See also Online Swingers)
Party (Swinger Party)
Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging.
Quicktime sex
Internet and computer jargon for a pornographic-movie animated by Quicktime software.
Reverse anal cowgirl
Female sitting astride the male, facing his feet, while engaged in anal-intercourse.
Sadism/Masochism (S&M or SM)
Sadism is the pleasure in the infliction of pain or humiliation upon someone, while masochism is the pleasure in receiving the pain.
Safe
In swinging, someone that is not at risk for becoming or causing a pregnancy.
Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD)
Also known as VD (venereal disease). An illness that is transmitted between humans by means of sexual behavior (vaginal intercourse, oral sex, or anal sex).
Single (SGL)
A person, male or female that is participating by themselves in the lifestyle.
Single Bi Female (SBiF)
In the lifestyle, a bisexual woman that participates by herself (without bringing anyone else along). (See also Unicorn)
Single Bi Male (SBiM)
In the lifestyle, a bisexual man that participates by himself . Many swinging couples frown upon single males being in the lifestyle, so a single male may have a difficult time making lifestyle connections.
Single Black Female (SBF)
In the lifestyle, a black woman that participates by herself (without bringing anyone else along). (See also Unicorn)
Single Black Male (SBM)
In the lifestyle, a male participating by himself, without a partner. Many swinging couples frown upon single males being in the lifestyle, so a single male may have a difficult time making lifestyle connections.
Single White Female (SWF)
In the lifestyle, a white woman that participates by herself (without bringing anyone else along). (See also Unicorn)
Single White Male (SWM)
In the lifestyle, a male participating by himself, without a partner. Many swinging couples frown upon single males being in the lifestyle, so a single male may have a difficult time making lifestyle connections.
Sodomy
“Unnatural” sex, usually anal sex or oral sex, possibly forced.
Soft Swap
Or soft swing/swingers is a couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to but not including intercourse.
Straight (STR- STR8)
A heterosexual person, male or female.
Swap
Two couples exchanging partners. (See also Full Swap and Soft Swap)
Swinger(s)
Also referred to as swinging. Couples married or in an open relationship, who exchanges sexual partners.
Swinging
Also referred to as swinger(s). Couples married or in an open relationship, who exchanges sexual partners.
Tantric Sex
Is the act of making love without having an orgasm, or the act of making love and delaying an orgasm.
Thirty-nine
Dialectical slang for oral-anal-sex , based on the ideograph (39) of a face buried between buttocks , the figure 3 being the buttocks and 9, the face . Note: Devotees of anilingus have a saying: ‘ Once you get past the smell, you’ve got it licked ‘. See anilingus for synonyms.
Threesome
Is group sex involving three people.