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Lifestyle Definitions – A

Posted on August 1, 2011 by swingerlifestyleadmin

ACDC
A Person or persons who enjoys sexual activity involving both the same sex and the opposite sex; Also known as Bi- or Bisexual. These swingers tend to be free spirits and enjoy swinger sex more and are more sexually liberated with little to no reservations. (See also Bi Sexual)

All Cultures
All cultures is an individual or committed couple who enjoys all sexual activities, they have no taboos and enjoy all fetishes. People that are in to all cultures tend to be free spirit, open minded and make great life long friends.

Alpha Male
Refers to a well endowed, confident man that has sex with the wife of a cuckold. (See also Swinger Bull)

Anal
Anal penetration, also known as Anal intercourse; The act of the anus being penetrated by an object or penis. During anal intercourse it is most common for the penis to be involved. Over the years and in ancient cultures anal intercourse may involve a toy, fruit, vegetable or other object. The act is commonly known as Anal-Penile intercourse. (See also Greek or Greek culture.)

Anallingus
Anallingus, also known as Rim Job is oral stimulation of the anus and rim of the anus by a partner licking fast movements in the center of the anus opening and along the rim, or outside of the anus. Anallingus can also include light kissing, or mild sucking of the anus. Once performed the most common practice is the tongue moving in fast circular movements outside and even placing the tongue inside the anus to stimulate mood and heighten orgasms. During swinger intercourse anallingus is often used when a man is having sex with a woman in the cowgirl position and a third partner is administering to achieve an anal orgasm.

Arts
Fetishes. The practice of using non-sexual objects, actions, or non-genital anatomy to achieve sexual arousal and pleasure.

Lifestyle Definitions – B

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B&D of BD (Bondage and discipline)
Is the use of various methods to restrain an individual while administering discipline, usually done by a “master” to the “slave” (See also Master/Slave)

Back Door
Anal sex or anal intercourse. (See also Anal)

BDSM (Bondage – S&M or Sadism & Masochism)
Bondage, Sadism and Masochism ;People who either enjoy pain or pleasure for arousal. (See also Masochism) (See also Bondage)

Bi-Curious
Someone that is curious, interested in or has had limited bisexual experience.

Big Beautiful Woman (BBW)
Larger than average woman that is very beautiful regardless of size or weight.

Big Handsome Man (BHM)
Refers to a sexually attractive fat man that is large to extremely large.

Bi Sensual
Bi Sensual refers to one that enjoys touching/fondling/watching both sexes, but not oral intercourse.

Bi Sexual (Bi)
Bi Sexual, also known as Bi, is an individual who enjoys having sex with both men and women. (See also AC/DC)

Bizarre
Bizarre also known as Bizarre sex and Bizarre sexual intercourse. Bizarre usually entails strange and uncommon sexual desires

Bondage
Bondage is a sexual fetish where restraints are used to bind, tie or hold down a participating partner. Restraints may include ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps.
The person performing the binding is considered “dominant” while the person being bound is considered “submissive.”

Bull (Swinger Bull)
Refers to a well endowed man that has sex with the wife of a cuckold. (See also Alpha Male)

Lifestyle Definitions – C

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Can Entertain (Or Swinger – Party)
Can entertain is an advertiser willing to invite others to their home and or party or venue for swinging. Swinger Parties are very popular.

Caning – Swinger & Fetish
Caning is considered a spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood and usually caning, caned or spanked across the buttocks. Some consider caning another form of B&D BDSM and Bondage. (See also B&D, BDSM and Bondage)

Can Travel – Swinger
Can Travel is a swinger term, meaning the individual or couple is willing to travel to a desired swinging location. (See also Local Swingers or Online Swingers.)

Cheating
Cheating is Sexual activity with others without spouse’s knowledge and/or consent.

Clean
Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases, usually one with trimmed pubic hair and or shaved smooth. D&D also known as disease and drug free.

Clique or Swinger Clique
Swinger clique, meaning a group of people that may not have sex with you or party with you. Often at swinger parties and swinger clubs, a clique may only keep to themselves.

Closed Door or Close Door Swinging
Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms, Usually at clubs houses etc.

Closed Swinging or Close Door Swinging
Sexual interaction involving couples performing in separate rooms usually at a house for maximum privacy. Couples usually talk about the experience afterwards and often engage again in sex with each other afterwards.

Closet Swinger or Discreet
A closet swinger is an individual swinger or swinger couple that hide the fact that he/she are indeed swingers. Swingers hide the fact do to career, family and religion. Most swingers are middle and upper class. (See also discreet or discretion)

Community Member
A community member swinger is an individual swinger or swinger couple that believe swinging is more than recreational sex but more of a lifestyle. Often community members are free spirits, open minded and very spiritual.

Convertible
Topless

Cougar
An older woman who sexually pursues men significantly younger than herself. Some definitions define the age difference as at least 8 years.

Couple or Swinger Couple
In swinging, a man and a woman that are swingers can be married but not necessary. A Swinger couple usually are living together (cohabitation), are committed or in an on going relationship. Subsequently a single couple may be dating for swinging purposes.

CPL
In swinging, cpl is an acronym for couple or swinger couple, two people, generally one male, one female that are participating together in the lifestyle. A swinger couple can be married or in an on going relationship and are usually living together.

Cross Dresser (CD)
A person who sometimes wears clothing associated with the opposite sex, generally referring to men that dress in women’s clothes.

Cuckold or Cuckolding
A cuckold or cuckolding is a husband referred to as cuckold that allows his hot wife to pick and choose who she has sex with while he stays loyal. the woman will usually pick a well hung man to easily satisfy her sexually, unlike her husband. The man that pleases the woman is called a cuckold Bull or a Swinger Bull.

Culture (Swinger Culture)
Swinger culture is a Euphemism for fetishes and arts, swinger culture, sexual arousal. (See also Arts and fetish.)

Cunnilingus
Cunnilingus is the stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by using the tongue mouth and lips, especially the tongue. Swinger Cunnilingus is when more than one individual performs the act. Sometimes the teeth are used, (See French culture)

Lifestyle Definitions – D

Posted on August 1, 2011 by swingerlifestyleadmin

D&D Free
very Hygienic;someone who considers themselves disease and drug free. Generally this refers to being free of STD s and illegal drugs, also clean shaven. You may also see this written as D/D Free or just DD. (See also CLEAN)

Dildo
A dildo is a sex toy often used for vaginal stimulation. It is usually shaped phallic like and used during masturbation. Although mainly used for vaginal stimulation, it is also used for Anal stimulation to heighten orgasms. (See also Anal Sex)

Discipline or Sexual Discipline
Discipline is often referred to as a fetish where one partner will dominate a willing partner or participant. the act often includes physical punishment of the sub, or submissive partner. the punishment or discipline ranges from physical restraints and mild spankings to sometimes painful beatings.

Discretion or Discreet
A discreet swinger is an individual swinger or swinger couple that emphasize extreme caution not to alert friends family or people they know will not be offended or aware of the swinging activities.

Docile
Being docile, is someone who wants to and is willing to receive bondage and or discipline fetishes. Individual is also known as submissive.

Domestic Training
Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.

Dominant (DOM)
A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner. the dominant person plays the role of power and controls the submissive partner.

Double Penetration (DP)
A sexual partner willing to accept a penis in the vaginal cavity and in the anal cavity at the same time. Experienced DP users often say it heightens sex due to the woman feeling both penis’s touching together on the inside of the woman. Some women experience multiple orgasm from the act.

Lifestyle Definitions – E

Posted on August 1, 2011 by swingerlifestyleadmin

English Culture
English Culture is the sexual stimulation from spanking or caning, one who becomes aroused from spanking or caning is referred to as English Culture. (See also Caning)

Entertain
Entertain (See Can Entertain)

Exhibitionism or Exhibitionist
Can be described as behavior in which an individual achieves sexual arousal and or pleasure from displaying his/her body. Enjoys being watched.

Lifestyle Definitions – F

Posted on August 1, 2011 by swingerlifestyleadmin

Fellatio
Fellatio is the sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth, used in a sucking motion, slang terms include, Blow Job, and Head or Giving Head.

Female (F)
Abbreviation for female within the lifestyle, you will see this used in personal ads and online profiles.

Fetish
Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy. Often times thought of Bizarre or unusual sexual desires. (See also Bizarre)

Flagellation
Flagellation is the sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking.(See also BDSM for a better understanding)

French or French Culture
Oral-genital sexual activity. (See Also Cunnilingus)

Full Swap
Full Swap Swingers is a sexual encounter among 2 couples in which both couples have sex with the other couples, usually the husbands switch wives during sexual intercourse, sometimes play is expected and welcomed among bisexual women. Also known as Wife Swapping.

Fun & Games (Swingers)
Fun and Games or Swingers Fun and games is a euphemism for sexual activity.

Lifestyle Definitions – H

Posted on July 29, 2011 by swingerlifestyleadmin

Hard Core or Hard Swinging (Swingers)
A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected. This can entail anything from Full Swap to DP or Double Penetration. (See also Double Penetration and Bisexual)

Head
Oral-genital sexual activity; “Giving head” sucking motion, slang terms include, Blow Job, and Head or Giving Head.

Hedonist
The basic idea behind hedonistic thought or Hedonism is that pleasure is the only thing good for a person. Sometimes used to justify actions in terms of how much pleasure and how little pain a hedonist strives to maximize the pleasure (pleasure without pain)

Height/Weight Proportionate (HWP)
Someone that is not overweight or underweight.

Heterosexual
Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex, this involves men finding an attraction to women, and women who are attracted to men.

Homophobia
Is a negative feeling toward the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community.

Homosexual
One who enjoys and has sex with only the same sex, (See also Gay)

Horny
Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure, getting turned on, the act of wanting to have sex, having the mind and body crave and wants sex.

Host (Swingers-Host)
Host, or Swingers Host, an individual that has a place for swinging events, such as their household or their event location in which the host has secured a location for others to play. (See also Can Entertain)

Hung
Refers to a man with a large penis, in the swinging community it is not uncommon for a husband to want to watch a man that is hung have sexual intercourse with his wife. In some cases women have sex and make the husbands watch, this entails cuckold, or cuckolding. (Also See Cuckold)