My husband Carrie and I have been married now for over 25 years. We are an attractive couple both in our forties and have done very well for ourselves. We have two beautiful children; both have now gone off to college, so we now have lots of free time to ourselves. I would classify our sex life as above average. When the kids went away to college, we found that we had a lot more free time on our hands and with no kids around the house, our sex life began to pick up. We started getting more adventurous sexually; we experimented with sex toys and even did roles playing just to add a little spice to our marriage. We were more relaxed and had a lot of time to enjoy each other’s company, that’s when my husband started to open up about his sexual fantasies.
My husband’s biggest fantasy was watching me have sex with other men. At first I was shocked, but soon learned that it was a big turn on for him and soon I began to think about having sex with another man while my husband watched. He would talk about these fantasies while we had sex and I noticed that when I played along and answered back he got more aroused by my response. I wanted to please my husband sexually, so I decided we could give it a try. We knew this was something we wanted to explore more, but had no idea where or how to start.
We decided to do a little research before jumping in. We read up online about the swinging lifestyle and to our shock and amazement there was a whole community out there to explore. We started to watch a few DVD’s and I decided to read up more about the lifestyle through this online swinger’s magazine. My husband checked out a couple websites and created a profile for us on Swinglifestyle.com. We went through a couple profiles until we came upon a nice attractive couple by the name of Jeff and Karen, who were around the same age as we were and their story seemed to mimic ours. My husband decided to reach out to them through email, where we had a few email exchanges back and forth before deciding to meet. We decided to do a web cam meeting so we could get better acquainted with the couple. Our webcam session was a success. We talked a little about where we were as couples and experiences we had in the past. They have been in the lifestyle for a while and knew we were newbies. We played a little game that left my husband and me so aroused and interested for more, we decided to meet up in person.
We first had an intimate meeting at an exquisite restaurant where we fine food, fine wine and a erotic conversations. They talked to us about the lifestyle and some of their experiences, the good the bad and the ugly. They even invited us to swingers resort in the Caribbean and we told them that we would think about it. Our second meeting was at a swingers club. This was the first time we have been to one so we just took in the ambiance of it all. We had a few drinks and then hit the dance floor. We were having such a great time, when Karen came over to me and said that they were real comfortable with our friendship and us as a couple and wanted to take it to the next level. She then asked if we wanted to join them in the play area. I knew what that meant, so took my husband’s hand following Jeff and Karen we went with them to the play areas. We entered the play area, where we all got naked and started to lick, suck and f’ck and thus the beginning of our swinging lifestyle.
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